One thing my parents taught me was that attitude is
everything. When I was younger I didn’t quite grasp this, but as I got older it
started to make sense. Everything we say and do starts with a thought, so it
follows that if our thoughts are negative, it will show in how we treat other
people, how we react to situations and what kind of choices we make. Matthew
15: 18 says this: ‘…the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart.’
We may not be feeling negative towards others, but even a negative view of
ourselves can affect our words and actions. Attitude is relevant to every
single aspect of our lives.
I struggle with my attitude sometimes, but this year has
been good for me. I met people who have helped me to turn my attitude around
and get out of the negative mind-set that can be so crippling. So, with their
comments in mind, here are some of my thoughts on how to stay positive.
Disclaimer: this post is not aimed at anyone who suffers
from depression. Depression is a very real thing that requires professional
attention. This is simply food for thought.